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Parenting Guide

4 Years

Developmental Milestones

  • Enjoys playmates and will begin to play cooperatively with others.
  • It is normal to have imaginary friends.
  • Speech is almost always understandable.
  • Can usually count from one to 10.
  • Can walk on tiptoes, climb a ladder, and ride a tricycle.
  • Holds and uses a pencil with good control.
  • Can draw a person with a face, arms, and legs.

Parenting Tips

  • Maintain a consistent bedtime routine. Using a night light, security blanket, or a toy are ways to help lessen nighttime fears. Reading to your child each night before bed is a calming bedtime routine.
  • Allow your child to participate in setting and cleaning up the table.
  • Provide your child with clear limits and an explanation of the consequences if rules are broken.
  • Use kind words and attention to encourage positive behavior.

References

  • American Academy of Pediatrics. (2014). Ages and Stages. Retrieved from healthychildren.org
  • Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. (2014). Developmental Milestones. Retrieved from cdc.gov
  • KidsGrowth.com. (2014). Growth Milestones. Retrieved from kidsgrowth.com

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